How many bridesmaids are really too many? Some brides have big families or lots of close friends who must be part of the bridal party. A large bridal party means you'll have more hands on deck to help out with the wedding planning, but it also means you'll need to spend more money on BM gifts and organize a longer processional. Don't let those details stop you from making your favorite people part of the your big day. If you can't imagine your wedding without your best friends, sister, future sister-in law, and cousins standing up at the altar with you, you can make it work-without overdoing it. Here's how:

1.Create balance. If your fiance plans to have fewer attendants than you, have your BMs double up going down the aisle. Pair two girls together, or have one groomsman escort the two bridesmaids.

2. Choose a maid or matron of honor. Ask her to check in regularly with the other bridesmaids to make sure they're on point with ordering their dresses, buying shoes, and being prepared for the big day.

3. Introduce everyone. This makes suggestion number two easier, and it helps the group get to know each other prior to your wedding day. That will calm everyone's nerves.

4. Delegate responsibilities clearly. You don't have to rely only on your MOH for help. Got a crafty BM? Ask if she can make the programs. Is one of your BMs a Type A planner? Have her take the lead in throwing the bridal shower.

5. Set a gift budget. You don't have to spring for designer-label clutches or platinum necklaces for all eight, nine, ten or more of your bridesmaids. You'll save mega bucks by shopping smaller vendors instead of the big brand names.