If you want a real Colombian girl for marriage, this is the right place for you. Just scroll down, click, and start chatting with thousands of real Latinas in 1 or 2 minutes—it’s not an exaggeration, it really won’t take more than 2 minutes.
But before that, read our guide. Here, we’re going to answer all the most important questions and cover all the most important topics related to women from this country!
Do not order a Colombian bride date before you read this
We can’t say with confidence that Colombian brides are 100% perfect for you—they are perfect for someone, yes, but it’s not that any American man would enjoy dating any Colombian woman, of course. Let’s talk about these ladies.
- They are passionate about love, life, family, and everything else. Their level of emotional expressivity is higher than that in the US so they are generally more expressive, dramatic, and intense than people around you. And they do not hide their real emotions which makes it much easier to build a relationship with them!
- They are too emotional sometimes. Yes, this can be a problem, too. For example, winning an argument with a Colombian girl is impossible, and it may sound fun and cute but not when you’re building a serious relationship with her.
- They are very, very focused on their beloved ones. For Colombian women (and for all the other Latino brides), family is always the #1 priority, without any exceptions. They have very close relations, they always support their relatives, and family members usually play a very large role in each other’s lives.
- Their family’s opinion matters and you’ll need to deal with it. Them being family-focused is a great thing, but there’s always another angle. For example, the opinion of your bride’s family members will always be extremely important to her, even when she moves to the US and you marry her. It’s not like her family would be against you, no—it’s just that she will always care about what her relatives think, and this can influence your life in a way you’ve never thought about before.
- They are happy and optimistic. Nothing to add here, they’re just some of the most optimistic and cheerful people in the world.
You see, it’s complex. Like, on the one hand, them being emotional is great. On the other hand, it’s great for only 95% of the time. That’s why it’s important to weigh the pros and cons before making an important decision.
Dating tips
There are rules that can help you with a woman from almost any country in the world—be confident, be yourself, look your best, etc. But what about dating a Colombian mail order bride? How to impress her?
The answer is right here—every woman is surely unique, but these rules will most likely work when dating many Colombian brides.
- Do not tell her to calm down if you have an argument. Just don’t say anything, this works much better—if you argue with your Latina wife, someone needs to de-escalate the situation, and it must be you because she’s not that good at it.
- Be faithful. Colombian women are 100% loyal, it’s one of the main things in a relationship for them—and if you betray them, you’ll never rebuild trust.
- Be confident and kind, polite and decisive at the same time. They want a masculine gentleman who would treat them as queens but also be a bit “macho”—so just give them what they want and you’ll love the result.
Are those rules easy to follow? Sure! Even if it dones’t impress your partner, it will simply maintain your relationship at a decent level of love and trust.
Can I really buy a Colombian bride?
No, it’s impossible.
But the good news is that you can still meet and date them. You can even marry a Colombian girl and bring her home, it’s 100% legal (you can read our guide on this subject here). It’s not that difficult, by the way—there are thousands of marriage-minded women from this country on specialized dating sites (they’re called mail order bride websites).
How do I meet Colombian brides?
How to find Colombian wife? You have 2 options to choose from. Well, there are more options, of course, but we won’t mention some of them here. Marriage agencies, for example, are not worth mentioning—they’re too expensive. Facebook and Instagram are free but it’s not that easy to find a Colombian wife, a life partner there.
What we got after sorting out all those alternatives is offline and online dating.
Offline
Usually, when we’re talking about offline dating—it doesn’t matter whether it’s Mexico, Vietnam, Japan, or Ukraine—we honestly say that these countries are too dangerous/expensive/etc. With Colombia, the situation is different: it’s affordable, it’s closer to the US than any Japanese or Eastern European country, and it’s not that dangerous anymore, especially if you only visit popular tourist places in Medellin or Bogota.
And local women are also great for offline dating. They speak English, they’re incredibly open-minded, and they are often approached on the streets by local men so it’s not like it’s something new to them. And they love American men—so the chances of meeting a single Colombian who would be interested in you are pretty high.
Let’s talk about other advantages of this method and about its disadvantages.
- Colombia is cheaper than most Asian and European countries so a trip here will cost you much less than a trip to Japan, China, Ukraine, or Poland.
- Local women are hot, friendly, and open-minded
- Finding a bride offline is almost impossible. You will most likely not meet any single Colombians interested in marriage with an American in a nightclub, and even though daygame is another conversation, it’s still very unlikely.
- It’s an affordable country but it’s not free. A 1-week trip will cost you around $1,500
Online
Online dating is better. Of course, we could be less direct and more long-winded here, but what’s the point? It’s simple: online dating is more convenient, it’s cheaper, it’s faster, and it offers much more opportunities.
But it’s not perfect.
- Very large dating pools. The best Colombian dating apps have at least 5,000 women. These women are single and they’re interested in a relationship with you!
- 1 month of online dating will cost you around $200-$250 instead of $1,500 for a weekly trip
- Mail order bride websites offer a lot of tools from video calls to gifts. Perfect for those who want to maintain long-distance relationship
- It’s possible to meet a gold-digger or a scammer online
- If you’ve never used online dating apps before, you’ll probably spend a lot of time choosing the most suitable one
How much for a Colombian mail order bride?
As we’ve just said, “buying” a woman from Colombia is impossible. You also can’t buy a Colombian bride, a Brazilian bride, or a bride from any other country.
But if you want to marry a woman from another country and bring her to the United States, you will need to pay. Dating sites, visas, a trip to Colombia, and so on.
First of all, a dating site.
There are 6 credit packs here, they cost from $18.99 to $199.99. The largest one is the best—if you buy 1,000 credits for $199.99, you only pay $0.2/credit. Now, with that in mind, here’s the cost of messaging features:
- Live chat — 1 minute costs 2 credits
- Emails — 1 email costs 20 credits
- Viewing a video — 25 credits
- Contact request — 500 credits
Men usually spend around 500-600 minutes/month in the live chat—so it’s $200-$240 per month.
The meeting request costs $100 but you will probably not need it too often.
A trip to Colombia costs around $1,000 per 1 week ($1,500 if you don’t skimp on it). Let’s say 1 trip is enough (but keep in mind that it’s not always enough, to be fair).
The visa to the US costs around $2,500 (we’re talking about a fiance(e) visa).
The wedding might cost you from $100 (if you’re going to marry at a courthouse, get your license, and go home) to $30,000 (the average wedding cost in the United States). From our experience, men usually spend less on a wedding with a foreign woman than with a woman from their country because of several factors such as the number of guests. So probably, you’ll spend $5,000-$10,000 on it.
So, the total price without the wedding is around $3,800 ($300 for online dating, $2,500 for the visa, $1,000 for a trip)). If we include the wedding party, this whole thing will become a 3-body problem, a problem without an equation that always solves it—in this case, the final cost might be anything from $5,000 to $35,000.

Living with a Colombian bride: What else to know
Colombian brides are great, they’re attractive and emotional, very feminine and strong at the same time. And that’s not all you need to know about them.
- If your wife is from Colombia, you’ll never walk alone and you’ll never feel alone, which is probably even more important. You’ll always feel wanted and needed, and although some might call it “clingy”, that’s definitely not the right word. “Affectionate” is a much better fit.
- They’re incredibly optimistic. Just like Colombian brides, for example, they haven’t lost their traditions and their culture during the harsh times, and the ability to view the world in a positive and optimistic manner is one of those core values of these people.
- Having a Colombian wife means that you’ll need to help her family if it’s necessary. On the other hand, once you become a part of the family, you’ll get as much support, help, and encouragement as you need (and even more).
Want to know more about foreign brides? Say, about how this industry works, about how much it costs, or about the best bride countries? Then, don’t miss our guides—you’ll find all the answers there!
Why do Colombian girls want to date a man from another country?
- Colombian brides want to have a loyal partner. The problem is that men in this country just don’t think being loyal is worth it, especially in their 20s and 30s.
- They want to pursue their ambitions in a more developed country. Colombia isn’t that bad, of course—but a young, beautiful, intelligent, and ambitious lady doesn’t have too many opportunities in this country.
- They think that Western men are hotter than local men. Some Westerners think Latinas are hotter than women from the US, for example—it appears, this goes both ways.
- They are tired of being abused. Unfortunately, it’s one of the main features of the “machismo” culture, and Colombian men still can’t (and don’t want to) finally say goodbye to it.
Stereotypes: False or true?
Before you start dating a mail order bride (Colombia), read this. Here, we’ll talk about some stereotypes you’ve probably heard about Colombian girls at least once. We won’t talk about drugs and Escobar, though—it’s 100% obvious and doesn’t even need debunking.
Have more questions?
Colombian mail order brides are a perfect choice for anyone who loves bright, emotional, and feminine ladies with traditional views. They love Western men, they make great wives, and you can meet thousands of them today! By the way, if you want to know more about them, scroll down and read our FAQ section, you’ll find even more useful info there.
FAQ
Yes, it’s perfectly legal. As long as you meet USCIS requirements, have a stable income above the annual income level in your state, and your relationship is real, you can bring your Colombian bride or wife to the US.
Yes. There are many decent dating apps with thousands of Colombian women seeking marriage, and according to the Department of Homeland Security, at least a few hundred of them get married to American men every year.
Well, no. In fact, money is not even one of the top three reasons why they want to marry a Western man—finding a loving husband who will respect them is much more important for them than finding a rich husband who will pay for everything.
It would be great if you could learn Spanish to communicate with her family and friends, but it’s not necessary. As for the brides themselves, they speak English pretty well, and it won’t take more than a few months for your wife to become a fluent speaker in the United States.